Tuesday, May 26, 2009

!!!morally immoral!!!

We worship God day and night, in grief or in happiness but we disrespect on the other hand its image every day and night and wherever we found chance to do so. God when created this earth and so called life, he first made man and sent him on the earth, but later he realized that who is going to take care of this hard-working and physically strong fool. So he created its finest creation among all, which we can say the god’s mirror image. He sent his sensitive, emotional and caring image on this earth in different forms to take care of everything. Why I am saying woman as image of God because after him she has the only power to give birth to a life. She has to face so many phases in her life and though she remains what she is i.e., image of care and emotions, just her role changes from one phase to another. She first born as a daughter, and then become sister, after that someone’s wife, then to complete herself became mother and so on. Sometimes I hear debates going on round the corner between men and women that who among is much better and people are fighting unnecessarily though they know the answer as well. Undoubtedly its women, who is stronger and better than anyone in this world.

She is much stronger than man that she is the only one who has to leave her parents home after spending 20-25 memorable years with them, for a person who is just known to her since 3-5 years long. After leaving her home, she makes other person’s house into home, take her family’s name ahead etc. etc.
A woman is stronger, because she is the only one who can spend her remaining life in colorless attire after her husband’s death. She is the one who can withstand those life creating pains, she spent hours in labor to give a birth to the child, prior to this she is the one who carry a baby for nine months in her womb and not being able to enjoy because she know how to care. So what is the meaning of doing such kind of debate? If you just look back and flip the pages of history you will find the great story of her transformation from pardanashin voiceless servant cum wife to becoming sati for her dead husband to give him moksha and making her life hell to a widow who is not allowed to do re marriage to an educated women to working women and now she is on the top of the world. Just look at your mother if you want to learn something. She cares for everyone, she ate after everybody has eaten and satisfied although sometimes she has to sleep without food.

India is the only country in this world which is addressed femininely as we say Bharat Mata. No other country is known by such respected name, have you ever heard someone saying Pakistan Mata or America dada, I bet no. we used to worship vaishno ma, and other matas but we forgot to worship our own mother who has given birth to us. She woke up in the morning prepare food for everyone then she rushed to her office, handle boss’s sarcasm and orders and arguments, and then after returning home she again get back to her daily routine job and this cycle goes on and on. She faced so many hurdles daily that we even can’t imagine it.

Suppose you board a bus to go to office and someone came and pinched your back, or make lured comments on you, don’t even bother to stand up and give you seat, scanning through your body like X-ray machine (I don’t know what he is searching for, either counting bones or whatever which he just know) when are you standing or even walking on the road or bus stop, pushes you in the bus, follow all way long from bus stop to your office then back to your home like a street dog used to do(but still dog is obedient and faithful) and so on. You can’t even imagine the pain which a woman has to face daily and if somehow you imagined that then it became the worst nightmare of your life. You can talk to as many woman as you want at any time of the day or night but the moment your girlfriend or your wife talked to some guy, you tend to come out of your paints to give her divorce or started judging about her character forgetting all those days when she slept empty stomach or awaken for the whole night in your illness to care for you or the pain which she went thorough while leaving her parents for you or the pain which she encountered while giving you your family representative.

We says that we live in so called modern and educated society where there is no respect for woman then I wish that we should live in not so modern society. Question yourself what you got from this modernism and I have never encountered any study material or in any books that dis respect the woman then what is the use of education.

We take education to broaden our thinking and provide equal platform to woman where she can feel safe and able to walk on the streets keeping her face up, where she can also live her life independently and take her decision with full freedom, where she can also enjoy her life fully without any restrictions. So, please give it a serious thought, if you’re a good human being will enough don’t lose your goodness but if you are just a human being or even not then start becoming a good human being.

Respect woman, respect your parents, respect your nation and respect yourself!!!

3 comments:

  1. u r absolutely right!!!!!! but dis thought can actually be given by those who is very senisble n is empathetic, who understands d role of a woman actually, but in a so called modern society like ours u can't change d perception of people, 4m my point of view dey r still backward in their thoughts.But whatever u quoted dat is absolutely right n still it is prevailing......

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  2. u write too good deepak.....dese r sum genuine feelings.....but do u think d mindset of ppl will ever change??

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  3. mindset of people will definitely change one day...we should always be optimistic about things...when more of education infuse into our society then definitely people will become morally correct...

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