Thursday, September 10, 2009

...Poetic Resignation...

Poetic Resignation

(I don't know if I should stay.)




The name is good, the brand is big

But the work I do is that of a pig

The work or the brand; what is my way?

I don't know if I should stay.



To work, they have set their own way

Nobody will care to hear what I say

My will be NULL, they wont change their way

I don't know if I should stay.



The project is in a critical stage

But to do good work, this is the age

This dilemma is killing me day by day

I don't know if I should stay.



The money is good, the place is great

But the development is at a very small rate

Should I go for the work, or wait for pay

I don't know if I should stay!



The managers don't know what they talk

The team doesn't know where they walk

That's a bad situation, what say?

I don't know if I should stay.



I can go to any other place

But what if I get the same disgrace

I can't keep switching day by day

I don't know if I should stay.



The -ves are more, the +ves are less

Then why have this unnecessary mess

No more will I walk their way,

It's all done, I won't stay.



Thanks & Regards
Employee


Reply: What I want to say? (Manager)


The decision is good or decision is bad

Only God knows still I am glad

Keep moving in life that is what I can say



If you feel right go in the same way

May god give you the work, the challenge you want

Anyway there is always a second chance

Chances are there, grab them snatch them

That is what I can say



Keep on jumping companies to get more and more and more....

That will keep you always a fore (Even to me)

From my experience I can tell you

Being in software development is like taking hell out of you

You are frustrated since you have no quality work

And you were frustrated because you had quantity work



It's always like that previous job was better than the current one

And expects the new job will be much better than this one

But what you get is a frustration level up to sun

Than you will again send the resignation like this one

This is all what I want to say



Have you completed all the formalities?

Filled the form and got it signed from department humanities (HR)

Once done you can take all your cash

But don't refer others as they will follow you're a*s.

At last I appreciate your contribution to the company

Even though there was not any....



You will keep a copy of this with you for FYI

Don't feel shy

As I also got it some time back from my old manger say Hi....

That is all what I want to say.


Thanks & Regards

Manager

Tke care
(courtesy: unknown author)

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

...love marriage vs. arrange marriage...

This is a very hot topic in so many group discussion sessions and I don't know why they put this topic there...as it is more of person's perception about the subject matter. And perception, in turn lies in the family background, cultural environment, and and the surrounding society.

Now, there is a misconception among so called modern society that those who believe in arrange marriage are outdated and uncle types or very conservative but this is not true. As per my thinking is concerned, I prefer arrange marriage not because that I don't want to be categorized in the above said misconception.

There is a unique pleasure in getting married with someone whom you are stranger with and then converting this stranger bond into so tight that you could celebrate diamond jubilee with her. whereas in case of love marriage you already knew a person prior to your marriage and there is no surprise and fun after marriage. Let's look at the basic statistics...in arrange marriage you start your married life with your partner and start it at 0 (let's say) and then keep on living further. But in case of love marriage you already lived with your partner and spent few time so your married life start definitely starts after 10 or 20 and you are left with just 80 points which is instead 100 in the former case.

Judging a relation with someone's prior experience is really a bad practice. Unless until you have gone through it how can you judge it. A dish might look bad but it could be very tasty.

Exploring your partners' nature and understanding her feelings and taking care of her is the best and non descriptive thing in the whole world. And survey says that most of the divorces happened in case of love marriages because of non-synergistic effect between families. Because marriage is not the relation between two individuals but a strong bond between two families.